PS: I no longer want to be friends with vicoria. She is too no fun. She is a total brown noser and she really acts like she could be from old house on the prarie! Her room is all white, with only a bed, and the only movie she likes is cool runnings. And she just moved here 3 years ago, and bella has been my friend since kindergarten, and we are 13 now. I just need a way to find out how to get bella back! (without victoria) and no im not jealous, because i have other friends, and victoria does not.
ps: Bella think victoria and i like eatchother, and has no idea about this competition. Plus, victoria and I are nice to each others faces, and nobody knows we hate eachother, except my parents.
PS: Ive only been nice to her. Ive never been mean to her, only recently when she told me that she was going to join jazz band with Bella (ps she hates band) and i told her, "No, i dont want to be just like her"
I think that it's good that you wish to maintain your personality and not stoop to her level. and as you said Victoria does not have any friends so naturally she will be protective to the one that she thinks cares for her. One suggestion is to help Victoria get more friends so that she doesn't stick to Bella.
To be honest, I think you need to grow up.
umm I'm sorry if this offends you, but people just don't "decide" that they don't like each other anymore. I'm sure there was something that you were doing that 'victoria' found offensive or something of the sort. maybe talk to 'bella' and see if she can get 'victoria' to back off, or hows this- don't talk to 'victoria' anymore. Honestly, though, its a two way street. There's no way that everyhting is her fault, and I'm sure you've gotten more possessive over your mutual friend since your ex-friend started "taking over". That's just how it works.
Even the fact that you're posting this on the internet is showing how you're getting clingy too and how petty your fight is....
Find some way to deal with it. you're the onyl one that knows all the details so you're the only one that can solve the problem.
Or you could just suck it up.
This happened to me in middle school with my very best friend. A new girl moved down the street from her and was in the same class room as her. I lived farther away and didn't ride the same bus nor have any classes with my best friend except P.E. She and the other girl spent more time together and made plans for the weekends and most of the time I wasn't included. Whenever I would call and ask her if she'd like to spend the night she would always have something to do with her "new" friend. Only once in awhile would she be free for the weekend and stay over. It only got worse in high school because we never had any classes and she met more new friends. It was very hard for me and sad. After high school, when we both married, we became friends again and although the other girl was still in town, they no longer were friends. I guess what I'm trying to say is that friends will come and friends will go, but in the long run, true friends will stay, but probably after they've grown up.
Why dont you and "Bella" just hang out together on weekends and talk on the phone? "Victoria" dosent even have to know, it's really none of her business at all. You can also try ignoring "Victoria" completely so that no really big confrontation happens between you two since yall arent cool with eachother., and when "Victoria" comes around you when your hanging with "Bella" just tell her you'll call her later and go hang with your other friends!
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